Tacoma, Wa. Where are all the people?

Hey all, I am just new here in Tacoma and was looking to meet some new people.  I am not a desperate horndog that is looking for nothing but a nut, I am an aging married man who really wants to expand my horizons in I don't even know what way yet.  Any suggestions will be taken into consideration.  All good for just hanging and having a beer and conversation as well. So come out of the woodwork, I know you have to be around here somewhere.