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Hi - Just joined the site and am looking to judge how "real" it is - I have been disappointed with other such sites - far too many game players & time wasters. I'm based in Berkshire but very happy to travel to meet like-minded women. I'm very new to this scene so a guiding hand would be most welcome. I am very flexible time-wise (and otherwise!) due to being self-employed. I am laid back, fun, very well endowed (so I am told) and highly adventurous. Please message me if you think this may be your cup of tea.

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So - 179 views & not a single reply. Who's gonna walk the walk rather than talk the talk? You won't be disappointed.

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Hello! you are much more likely to get replies if you ad a pic or two to yr profile. I never bother with profiles unless they have pics.....just an idea ? X

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agree with Lucy if you want other members to take you serous then post a photo within your profile.

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All well and good but as my profile states it isn't quite that simple when you have professional considerations to take into account. I explicitly specify I am more than happy to send photos privately. Perhaps no-one bothers to read profiles. Those who have been good enough to mail me have been more than convinced I am genuine - indeed several have commented how refreshing it is not to communicate with a nutcase for once!

Maybe a picture is worth a thousand words! However, the lack of a public photo really does not mean the member is fraudulent.

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No, indeed, but when there are so many profiles on the site, I scan thru them very quickly when looking initially & don't read every single one; as you say, life's too short! Just a silhouette of you would be great. I have several pics of me but in none of them can you see my face, or my partner's. I for one, am very particular & only go for fit looking people, but that's my preference; if I see a pic of a large person, I dont bother, bc it doesn't matter how nice & real & 'not a nutcase' they might be, they just won't be for me. So, you see, a pic really does help. Good luck hunting. I can promise you there are real & lovely, sexy people on this site; you just have to keep trying as it's always a numbers game & then it's luck as to whether you hit it off.....xx

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Very fair points Lucy. I know there are genuine people on this site. It is just a shame we have to sort so much chaff from the wheat! I take on board your point of view about photos and I will act upon it. However, I also find people's profiles say a lot about them - not least whether they can string a coherent sentence together if that isn't too harsh.

It's good to get some genuine debate going. Hopefully others may contribute too.

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Can u accommodate?

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again Lucy brings up some good points even just putting up something will help after all you don't have to show your face and when people are looking through a photo whether its just showing a part of you will always get more attention than a profile with none

Most of the people that air negative views about poor responses to adverts are those with no photos

Go on snap a photo we all wanna see what you've got now ;o)

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again Lucy brings up some good points even just putting up something will help after all you don't have to show your face and when people are looking through a photo whether its just showing a part of you will always get more attention than a profile with none

Most of the people that air negative views about poor responses to adverts are those with no photos

Go on snap a photo we all wanna see what you've got now ;o)


Do you fancy Lucy or something!! I think I hear an echo when you are posting.

I will get some photos up - just need to get the airbrush out - lol!!

BTW - having a photo doesn't mean it is a genuine photo. I have seen some profiles up here with a gallery that seems to sport 23 different people.

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looking at her profile I wouldn't say no ;o)

but I agree "some" people do use fake photos but they are easy to spot, but the photo will still make someone click a profile over one that doesn't