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kinky67Spain

There must be at least ONE couple out there that genuinely want to meet another couple.

we're in the Almeria region but can travel and stay overnight for the right persons.

Bi female, orally bi guy when appropriate. we're not hardened swingers just like to enjoy ourselves together.

we're not looking to split anyone up so if you're married and "she doesnt understand you" or shes "away at the moment" please ignore this!!!!!!!!!!!

Genuine couple looking for same (with bi female) hee hee

get in touch and lets see where it leads.

xx
LucyLocket2009

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We find the same problem! Is ANYONE actually genuine ? So frustrating! Shame you're so far away....Lucy XX

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our feelings exactly!!....we're either pig ugly or does everyone just wanna chat and cam?...whats happened to real meets??
kinky67Spain

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well you're not pig ugly lmao!!

just a load of muppets on the site i'm afraid

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I have to agree with you both...i know i am a lowly SINGLE Male but i seek out those interested in single guys take the time to send a structured email polite cortious and full of info ie likes etc.....and then i get no reply...this site is being ruined by the likes of those people be they couples females or males

Hope you find what your after

Dave

bedfordmilf

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im fed up with people that dont take the time to read a profile before repling to it, this sites full of them !!, could save a lot of time and bother lol
LucyLocket2009

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I contacted you! You didn't reply......we think your profile is really horny & would love to meet.....let us know? X

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we are finding it exactly the same, were in baza, and theres no action at all in this area

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inland spain cpl.not to far from you why not check me out.
kinky67Spain

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Well that is very close to us infact same town lol checked out your profile but cant contact you as our membership has run out

FuzzySporran

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Same can be said for Scotland, beginning to wonder if there are any genuine people out there at all. Especially when you take the time to write a polite and courteous email and don't hear from anyone.

Hope you find what your looking for.

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i think the same can be said for everywhere , i would not mind if people replied with a no thanks but to just totally ignore you makes me wish that february would come round quicker so that my membership expires , i dont think i will bother e-mailing any-one else on this site as it,s just a waste of time , it,s no wonder that so many people have not bothered to log in for more than 30 days.

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I know what you mean! Very little replies which quite frankly I find rude!
Nikkisnylons1

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Well, if people are prepared to come and visit us on the Northern Costa Blanca, (not easy to travel due to kids), we are more than happy to meet up for fun, and as our validations show, we are genuine.

Love,

Nikki.
xxx

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Hi Guys
Don't you really think that we are all (muppets) as you have said, aren't some of us very Genuine, and putting all of us in the same box is a bit insulting.
M & J

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Hi Guys
Don't you really think that we are all (muppets) as you have said, aren't some of us very Genuine, and putting all of us in the same box is a bit insulting.
M & J

toni2009

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hi

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well i have 27 emails sitting in my outbox not read,so is that 27 less members on here not to memtion profiles that have been deleted by admin!! so were does that leave us?????!!!!!!

ps only met one female of here,despite not having a pic up, and lost count of how many iv'e had off an odinary dating site.what does that tell you!!

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I think we are all refering to couples meeting couples, single males I am sorry to say thats the cross there have to bare.
M & J

kinky67Spain

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Silkys,

referring to the "muppets" i'm referring to all the timewasters and fakers on the site not the genuine ones like yourselves and us as we know for deffo you guys are a lovely couple and very genuine.

But i do hope I have insulted all the fakers and timewasters (MUPPETS) that are on the site!

xx

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Hi everyone,
I`ve been a member for around 3mths now,have replied to loads of Adds,only had one reply,the others cannot be bothered to say No thanks even,

I may be 55yrs,but i`m not Dead,i`m fit ,and would like some fun before its to late.

So Ladies and Couples,please give me a try,i am genuine and can travel or accomodate in the country

Will give it another Month to see if anything happens,if not ,i`m not wasteing my time Here again,

Good luck to you Genuine Folk

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Hi Jim,
You are not the only one! So many 'lookers' but very few 'do-ers' here.
I have met some lovely ladies from this site (they know who they are) often on a regular basis, so don't give-up too quickly.
Good hunting,
Rod.

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deffinatly....its the same down here on the costa del sol...fed up with trying to do FREE parties...cant give food an drink away on this coast....
GetMeGoing

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It says Free messaging and Free replying on the home page, is that not the case?

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replies are only free if members have set filters to recieve messages , mine are set so that i can recieve messages from anybody , just in case someone wanted to contact me , but so far zilch , nowt ,nothing , i even sent a mail to someone who was complaining about not finding anyone genuine or replying & guess what they did not reply !!! so what is the use of people joining a site like this if they are not wanting to meet ? roll on february , i wont be extending my membership , i have to admit that i have had some replies ( they all said thanks but no thanks ) but the majority of people here just dont bother to reply , it,s not just this site though , this happens on a lot of sites ( i wonder if people are members of more than one site hmmm , that would explain a lot , still good luck to everyone in your search ( you are gonna need it ) as for me i,ll just wait & see if anyone contacts me & if they dont then i,ve lost nothing have i ? cos no-one replies anyway.

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I know one thing,as soon as your subscription ends, you will get mail always happens on sites to get you to re subscribe!! site generated i presume???

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I agree, i've been on this site for a number of months and have sent tens of emails to profiles that have been posted by singles and couples looking for bi curious fun.
There are a few things going on that give the impression that the site is active and there are genuine people on it.
1) A lot of profiles are created by the site it self put up here to make it look as if there is a large volume of new subscribers etc. Analysing them closely and you will see they are very similar. They are posted by the sites itself on the forums etc to make the site look busy.
2) The site has a lot of affiliates sites feeding members into to it where the members are old or are part of a network of sites. As we can see there are lots of people who havent logged in for over a month.
3) There maybe a few genuine people here but their numbers are so low and they already have a network of people to have fun with that they no longer use the site and connect directly with them. Untill a person can
4) The site is not as it claims to be a premier site for the adult and swinging community.
5) Some adverts are for parties that only want couples to attend in well known venues.

Anyways , if anybody in london is up for some , send me an email.

xxxx
irish
sexycaz200909

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HI NICE TO KNOW YOU STILL FIT NEW TO ME X
Petee0

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Hi, your right. Just because you have a few extra miles on the clock does not mean you cant give a bloody good account of yourself. In fact your more likely to give jenuine satisfaction. We are in Spain and have just started on site. Good luck
sebs66

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all UK sites are like this...used them on & off for a few years...its seems to be the British swinging culture..

lived in the USA for three years & the internet sites there are all very successful with easily a 1 in 3 contact rate..........

far too many wanna-be's in the UK.............
slutinheels

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hi i tptally agree with all of you , anyways hope we have better luck petee im also in the costa del sol id luv to meet plze get in touch

mike955iuk

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Dead right, lots of false profiles and replies. I think they just rip us off ...

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Hi all
I can only share my experience which is that i have met three couples from the site and enjoyed the occasions that we met.The people I have met have been very genuine.I live near Denia and have met in Benidorm, Altea and Javea.
David





DevonSentDevil

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Same here!

It appears to me that the only people on here that meet up are couples that are looking for the same thing, bi-curious females!!!

I'm a sexually frustrated male whose (older) partner has no sex drive what so ever, but I could never have an affair with another women. So I thought I'd look on this site and try and meet up with others who are like me and want to explore their sexuality and have some fun.

So far nothing, nada, zip, zero!

People see a 'single bloke' profile and walk away.

I've had one guy locally who contacted me as he was trying to arrange a gang-bang for one of his female contacts, but so far there have been problems with the timing or the venue.

As for me, well, I'm genuine and only recently worked out that I am bi-sexual, always thought that I was maybe bi-curious, but nope am truly bi and have been trying to find some friends for fun.

Maybe I'll try uploading a pic and singing up for the full membership and see how that goes?
bedfordmilf

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far to many fakes on here !! img src="imagesadultemoticons023.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons023.gif"

beth782831

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Its a shame you only invite members to contact you there devil!
mastergx

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I think you would be better upgrading your account and uploading a couple of pics, especially a face pic. I have been approached by a couple of members but if there is no pic and a bit more detail I get a bit suspect. I have been on other sites and I consider this to be amongst the best.

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Yes i am sure there are some fakes who would never meet others.
I agree with another comment far too many appear to be after just another female.
Some of us are genuinely single but are widowers and of course tend to be the older males, but we still have the urge for some fun albeit not so rampant as some might like.img src="imagesadultemoticons030.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons014.gif"

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It seems to be across the board. On the more international sites you get so many fake profiles or inactive dead wood its unreal. Most people who use the web now know about Nigerian scams, yet they keep on trying.

I think that there are also many who perhaps lose their nerve about taking a fantasy to reality. This leaves the rest who are willing to explore the possibility of meeting up, but then the issue of mutually convenient times or unrealistic distances comes into play.

Americans I think would think nothing of travelling 100 miles or so to meet up, whereas in the UK many would baulk at the thought of that sort of distance.

Geography does play its part as well. It stands to reason that there are greater opportunities in urban areas of finding someone who is like minded to meet for adult fun only - whereas those of us in rural areas face a much tougher challenge.

That said, being Bi probably helps. Most men I think can seperate the release gained from the sexual act from some sort of passionate mini affair, wheras I suspect that the majority of women prefer the idea of being wined and dined before img src="imagesadultemoticons014.gif" if you have charmed them enough. A bit more like a tradional dating sie except a promise of a bit more than a peck on the cheek.

I have always known I was Bi even before I slept with a woman. I too would not want to embark on some sort of seedy affair with a woman because of the danger of incorrect signals. That said if there are any women who can just get down to business - or should I say foreplay without the mini romance then that might be a refreshing change. I suspect though I would be disbelieving at first if contacted by such a woman.

To the poster above and anyone else who has not got a photo up, I do feel that adding one might yield better results. I tend to ignore profiles without a photo myself. Anyone can find their way into this site with a valid email address - even youngsters who are having "a larf". Ask yourself, how do you know that a profile without a picture is genuine? Especially when so many with pictures can be fakes or cons.

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Of course I had no idea this was on the Spanish Forum - It was linked from the home page, with no indication as to where the forum was.

At least you are getting some sunshine now unlike us drowned rats back in the UKimg src="imagesadultemoticons025.gif"

Ticklemytackle

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I agree most people I have been in contact with are time wasters and liars unfortunately.

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same for me i have had a few successful meets from here, but also been stood up too many times. often wonder why i pay my money only to get ripped off.

come on, we need some sort of verification system to prove profiles and people are genuine.

there are also too many hypocrites out there too, swinging is a lifestyle choice, which i have chosen, but often get told im too young, and should be out partying etc. not my thing. i enjoy this lifestyle and i choose it.

marks69

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I have to agree with most of the posters on here that there are too many timewasters and fakers. What appears to be genuine clearly is not!

You know who you are!?

I understand that having pictures will help, however a good narrative in the profile really should help. When I write to people it is only done after giving due consideration to their posting and profile. In the body of my message is my e-mail address, contact details plus the offer of sending a picture etc. I don't write to people lightly. The lack of response from many is deafening!!

Ok so I have met a few couples and at least one of those meetings was exciting for all concerned. I am not fooled by photos anymore either. One encounter, after the exchange of numerous pictures, demonstrated how you can be fooled. Happy hunting.
Mark x

ARCANGEL1

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The fakes stand out a mile on this site. If things don't move on at a steady pace for example - initial contact - likesdislikes - exchange of personal e-mail address - face pics (and others body pics if requested of course) - to exchange of mob nrs - to text msgs - more phone pics - vids etc to a meeting arranged and datesvenu confirmed - then of course the meet - which you all hope will be a satisfiying experience for all concerned. If that sort of sequence doesn't happen in a timely fashion you know you are onto a loser or just a faketimewasters. Although a lot of people don't read the profiles closely - especially single straight men - most people are not interested - it is nothing personal that is just how it is - so don't get the hump if you don't read the profile - and you dont' get a reply - why should we reply to anyone who has clearly not read the profile? This site is a bit slow but 3 good hits ;o) so will hold out for more!
kinky67Spain

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i'm afraid a picture is not always a way of proof there are so many pic collectors about now pics ccan be picked up absoloutly anywhere.

we dont like to send pics now unless we've chatted to whoever first and seen them on cam to verify who they are!

Thats another thing! I'm sorry if i'm being ignorant but if a "couple" has been on the scene for x amount of time why have they not got a cam ? if they dont like to play on cam thats fair enough as we prefer not to but its a sure fire way of everyone knowing who everyone is!

stickypants

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you look like your fit but have you got the meat to go with it
vaultdwella

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What pisses me off is the sheer amount of people on here who are only here to try and drum up subscriptions to some webcam site or porn site.

It's happened to me 4 times in 2 weeks now, you get chatting to someone after swapping messenger addresses, they say "Wanna view me on cam?" You say "Sure" They say "Ok..... but you need to sign up blahblahblah site to get an access code". If I was a little more stupid I'm sure my credit card would have been cloned a hundred times by now.