My husband introduced the idea of swinging many years ago which we've used in the bedroom for fantasy ever since.
My original view was it sounds very erotic but would be too much of a risk to our relationship to ever be anything more.
About 6 months ago I was talking to a friend about our bedroom play when she admitted to having had an affair and how she would love her partner to let her fool around.
I was a bit shocked but it's sort of played on my mind and I've started to wonder whether I've been too quick to refuse the idea outright.
My husband doesn't know and we haven't really talked about it being more than fantasy since he first raised the idea but I guess I'm here to explore the idea and get peoples views on whether it worked for them.
From just thinking about it a bit I think about it quite a lot now. A year ago I'd have been shocked, today even the idea of orgies and dogging I find a big turn on.
It's just that if I started I couldn't undo it plus I'm not even sure how to raise it with my husband in case he's changed his mind....
