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Who wants to help compile a name and shame list of those who do not read their mail or do not bother to reply, even with a, "thanks but no thanks?"
If you want to help, send to our mail box, not to the forum! We will post to each named person and give them a week to answer. Then we will report them to the site owners as time wasters.
Believe us, we have the time to spare!!

Roy and Roma xxxx

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13 unopened in my outbox.
I deleted the second page last week.
I have some read but not replied to but they can wait.
Good luck with your quest.

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we don't log on here very often so it can take us a while to respond- would we be named and shamed!?! also we don't reply to people who constantly mail us even after we have said thanks but no thanks. I don't think your idea would work!
Jargon

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Hi jonmarc,

We imagine that you probably log in more often than once in 6 to 8 weeks?
Of course you don't reply to people who pester you, nobody in their right mind does!
So all in all we think you have taken the idea the wrong way and we are all for it happening! We had 11 unopened mails that have now been deleted by the site owners due to being over a month old. It's about time the site was weeded, but the owners probably haven't the time and 400,000 plus members looks good when new people check out the site.

Jose & Gloria

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i must admit most people i send out mails to do reply and they are alway polite about it.
But i also have had some that dont bother.Just the way it goes.
lucidiscreet

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hi guys, we think this is a wonderful idea!!! even thought we are currently not meeting and it is stated on our profiles, we both still have our single profiles and we both still take the time and effort to reply to people who have taken the time to email us.

keep up the good work xxxx
JohnDevon

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I agree the non openingreply of e-mails is frustrating!
How about this as a compromise suggestion:
Each profile, when opened displays three dates:
Date the profile was first created
Date the profile was last amended by its owner (not by the site to correct age)
Date the subject of the profile last logged on to this site
None of that is, I am told, technically difficult, but it gives those looking at the profiles at least a rough indication of how much use the profile owner makes of the site.
Best wishes to all
John

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i agree, i have 4 pages of un read mail, put a lot of time and effort in to writing detailed replies to adds, what did i get,FUCK ALL, I WON,T BE RENEWING MY MEMBERSHIP AFTER THE 16th JULY .. this sit needs a dam good clear out.img src="imagesadultemoticons017.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons017.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons017.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons010.gif"

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Yeah can see where people are coming from, but example i got 7 mails in 4 days from a guy i had sent a thanks but no thanks to.... should i then reply to more mails? You may have time to sit and reply to that many... most of us also have a life!