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I’m so fed up of fakes and scammers.

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Lustgem

I’m a genuine member of this site. I do not know why this site is flooded with scammers and fakes. IF anyone real please message me in confidence. I’m there if I can.

I've noticed on alot of posts noone hardly replies. I'm a bit wary now of this site.

Boom! And my post gets deleted because I mentioned that there are heaps of fakes with stolen pics. Unbelievable...
Jaybc19

I agree with you

It's hard to trust anyone on here sometimes.

Don't worry. It's not just this particular site, many sexdating sites are absolutely brimfilled with fakes. You gotta be willing to sift through the nonsense if you wanna find anything.
marlandj772

i agree with the original poster on this thread
AmReal

Is there anyone real out there????   

Is there anyone real out there????   
Very few I think!!
Vintage7219

I am meeting someone this week, so i think it cold be ok. 
69danii

RE:I’m so fed up of fakes and scammers.

I have replied once already but it was deleted by the people who don't want you to know the truth!

sure wish there was an easier way to hook up

I agree with the author.

I also hope there's some legit profiles here

I was double charged when I joined, haven't heard back from them about a refund and I'm 99% sure I'm the only real person here. 

I was double charged when I joined, haven't heard back from them about a refund and I'm 99% sure I'm the only real person here. 

There are a lot of fakes and posers both Dom and Sub not just here but all over the net. Just gotta learn how to spot those fakes and posers before you invest to much of your time. I have gotten real good at it. I have been lurking on this site for awhile trying to figure out if it is worth while for me to go VIP.

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There are a lot of fakes and posers both Dom and Sub not just here but all over the net. Just gotta learn how to spot those fakes and posers before you invest to much of your time. I have gotten real good at it. I have been lurking on this site for awhile trying to figure out if it is worth while for me to go VIP.
in my opinion you won't gain much by going vip. I did and get flooded constantly with fakes and scams. You get very very few vip responses, everything else is site-generated garbage.
ijfho12

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Couldnt agree more

I think you've got to be  very Irresistible to ANY women and fingers crossed you might get a reply ,so many fakes it's unreal ! 
Can anyone show me a genuine women please 

Scammers

Posted here yesterday postulating that the website creates its own bogus activity just like all the other sex-dating sites do. Naturally, it fell foul of the their 'rules' and wasn't allowed.
Kalina23

I feel Exactly the same way. Been on other sites. I have Gotten no responses!!! It’s so F’d up!!! I just want to find a playmate. Ugh!!!! 

Seems the same on the left side of the pond. I have counted 1 real person. Bob
kingp54

I agree more needs to be done to sift out the ones that are not real.Always beware the ones that have different locations and miracles happen they are where you are on holiday.
shonas702

RE:RE:I’m so fed up of fakes and scammers.

Its scam central, the owners don't care
Zphar964

Litterally nothing but fakes or spam sadly
ijfho12

Never come  across a genuine person yet

I have been here a couple of weeks and not real good with computers, and live a bit out of the way, but replies have been few and far between, and the ones that have written have been 30 years younger than me and live a long way away. Sincerely, Bill

Are there any real and honest girl here.

We are lol
camsh126

Tried to comment was declined 
blacknight77

Most are real
camsh126

I have tried to post 10 times and my comment gets declined or censored. . 
Fizzy1969

Hi all I’m new today and most definitely genuine. Any ladies wishing to message me then wonderful nice to meet you all ??
BritishN3rd

9 Scammers this week and counting, bloody hell ??
Imbatman83

I put a post up today about the amount of fake profiles and within minutes it was taken down. Strange how the admin can delete my posts within minutes but not do anything about the fake profiles kinda seems like they might have something to do withthem. I definitely won't be paying for VIP ever again. 
Imbatman83

Fully convinced the admin is sending fake messages I just got a message off someone I know so I rang her and asked if she sent me a message and she told me she hasn't logged in to her account in over a month. I replied to her message on this and she hasn't even got my reply so what the admin is doing is stopping people from being able to chat. I paid 40€ for a month vip and I may as well flushed it down the toilet. This site is just one big scam.

I have come across equal numbers of real and fake within my region. 


Fully convinced the admin is sending fake messages. This site is just one big ****am.

ive been saying that since i joined 2 months ago, no doubt this post will be deleted lmfao but ill keep reposting it

the****ve even removed my other posts that have been there for a month ...what a joke


Its ****am central, the owners don't care

totally agree

il be cancelling my subscription you wouldn't believe how many girls are on VACATION nearby and think im sexy its good for a laugh I suppose
mwoodard79

Why does everything I try to post break forum rules. I was trying to agree with you but somehow it breaks the rules again
camsh126

Same all my ten posts removed 
Email to support never answered 
rasputin951

As every one else has said, I will not hold my breath waiting fer a reply never mind anything else
theditchman

HAHAHA       if you beleive anything or anyone on this site I've got cheap land for sale in Florida...just get in touch..and yes all the people that contact you are Nigerians or computer generated to make you join..Look at where the registered office is its a small island in the middle of the Irish sea
theditchman

I have actually texted some of the scammers back and forth and they have confessed to being in Kano Nigeria I would not be surprised to learn this site is owned by Nigerians. make sure you change your CC number or you will be billed over and over regardless of you cancelling your account Most of my comments are pulled quick Good luck boys

Not really, the bots and scammers seems to be in the majority
theditchman

The sorry fact is all sites are doing the same thing...match which is a big site just got sued by the us government for sending out half a million fake messages to make people pay to join...this site is cleverly located so it is almost untouchable..our private has probably already been sold..I have reverse back checked all the pics sent to me and everyone was stolen from the web...so beware my friends..especially the girls telling you they are sick of scammers on this forum...lol..
Muskiezv18

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Well i am going in three weeks . I have tried relentlessly. To find a female . I have text back forth. But when it comes down to it . They want money up front sent to them lol . Not . So if there are any real ladies that want or can prove me wrong . Please i say pleas .pm me . I want to say i am wrong

There are scammers and fakes everywhere not just on this site, you just have to be careful and sift these out to get anywhere. Some of the fake profiles are easy to spot and if you chat on the site its easy to see who the genuine people are. Good luck in finding them and avoiding the fakes.

Usually some of the responses don't seem quite right or are geared to themselves rather than answering the question you just asked. If you look at their profile and they have hundreds of favourites but no actual friends that's another red flag to me lol

camsh126

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Not sure how some of you get message approval. But as a number of the previous posts mention about spam, bots it’s true. Just read the terms and you will be surprised
theditchman

Some of my posts get taken down..some are left alone..go figure...I think its all my computer..so many certain words and it automatically pulls you off...I am beginning to think the only live admin on this site is the one who banks the money...I think this site is fully automated..
theditchman

I think your right....probably better off joining the local fetish factory or club kink
kneelbeforeme0

Biggest faker on here is leanandmeaty57.So I've mailed his employer ??

I know the market is right for a site that does a good job of eliminating scammers with proposals for online safety passes. I mean we as posters can report but I know the technology and resources are there to stop this better. The site does post warnings and i guess does it's legal liability due diligence, but I would pay more for a site that had high percentage of genuine profiles. I know scammers are gonna find a way, I get that. However at this point, it would almost be worth it to just meet and chat with real people even if I did not hook up with anyone. 

I have had this on other sites aswell so many fakes you but they are easy to spot I think.

Point is though, sites like these are happy hunting grounds for people looking. I wonder if that’s a good thing or a bad thing. Real person over here, happy to see that people are aware and attentive. 
Eddytide

ROFLMAO.  Well there are so many "puritans" about who will judge people who have a more liberated attitude to their sex lives.  The "holier than thou" brigade would have a field day if they found out what their neighbours were up to.  Eve Naturism is looked upon with "horror"!.  While many people want to explore a wider field in their sex lives, they do not want to be treated like a "piece of meat" taking on "passing trade".  It is not just about sex.  People need to feel that they are respected as well as enjoying a wider sex life.  Some people like the "Idea", but get cold feet because if the wrong people find out what they are up to, it might cost them their job or promotion.  Having a sex life is still very much a "secret activity".  LOL.  Everybody does it but we pretend that we do not!.  Indulging in swinging, is not a "free for all" activity.  If that is your attitude, then stick to dreaming and jerking off.  Having sex can ruin your life if you are not careful when and with whom you play.  "Sexual guilt" is instilled in us from a very early age and is a form of brainwashing like religions. ie. "Masturbation will make you blind",  DUH!.  Well most of us need spectacles as we get older.  LOL   Be a bit more subtle folks or stick to wanking!.  It takes a lot of courage and trust to expose ones self to possible social ostracization in our non sexual lives.  Think and be considerate to others. Never brag about with whom and when you got your jollies. Remember, God is watching as he is also a pervert and a voyeur, after all he gave us men a 4skin so that the religitards can cut it off.  LOL