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First time Nerves

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Hi all, i've never been involved in 3somes etc, but wife has agreed to try it at some point. My question is this, who do you think gets more nervous leading up to it? is it the wife or do you think the hubby gets more nervous? i'd be interested to hear from both parties & also how did it affect your relationship afterwards?
porndog

Re: First time Nerves

We usualy meet for a social drink with the other parties prior to a meet. we are never nervous on these occasions but the closer we get to the meet, the more nervy we get.

The night of the meet, we both have butterflies in our stomachs and like to have a couple of drinks to take the edge off.

When the others turn up, the small talk can last ages with no-one wanting to make the first move. Be brave and start with your own partner and things will progress naturaly.

After a meet, far from feeling guilty or upset, we feel all smug and satisfied, catching eachothers eyes and smiling a lot.

Swinging has made our relationship stronger and has allowed us to explore new things.

We hope your first meet goes well.

Mr and mrs P

xx

Re: First time Nerves

have to admit 1st time we were so nervous we were like school children laughing at the slightest thing. best thing as you have already been informed is to start with own partner and after a little while the mood takes you all. After a meet we are so much closer with each other and we have moved to single meets as well as joint meets