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I've just had a guy who on first msn contact asked me within 2 lines how big my boobs were!! I repleid saying fairly big and he asked again. When I responded that I was getting the vibe that this guy wasn't my type he replied 'you bore me, you must be fat, f**** off you fat bitch' - and you guys wonder why you don't get any meets!!

I have to admit, this is the first one I've had like that, the rest of the guys I have chatted with over the last couple of months have all been really nice and made me feel very comfortable and have just accepted a no if that was the case.

Wonder if anyone else has had this kind of response. It doesn't give a single girl a lot of confidence to chat to these blokes, I must admit.

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I think if you get some one like that calling you names etc then report them to the web site .

People like that make it harder for the rest of us to trust others on this (or any other) swingers site.

sorry to say this but you have to just take TWATS like that with a pinch of salt and enjoy your life as best you can we arent all like it by a long way.

Be good and enjoy.

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i'm sure you look fine hon, just block him out

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Hi, Just to say i think you may have been very unlucky with this guy who is obviously seriously warped.
but i do wonder why you let him have your msn info, we have a rule we dont give out our msn address until we have chatted to the people in the chat rooms here at least 23 times and we have some idea of who they are, this seems to work ok for Teo who has chatted with many single guys both here and on msn without any problems.
if at any time she feels uncomfortable she will simply kill the conversation.
anyway best of luck for the future.
lol Ron and Teo xxxxxxxxxxx

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Hi, I'm really new to this site, but hope you don't mind me giving an opinion?
People like the guy you mentioned are obviously thick as crap, can't hold a conversation and are as shallow as hell. Just ignore them! Oh, d'you get loads of Russian girls on this site emailing blokes to say how they've instantly fallen in love with them? img src="imagesadultemoticons019.gif"