Anyone into a more subtle approach?

Hi, I'm a married male looking for some like (dirty)minded females. I'm not interested in anything other that webcams and pics at the moment as that is what is really turning me on right now. I'm very new to all this as you probably have worked out and I haven't been to any clubs etc. The more I've looked on the web, the more I've realised it seems ot be all or nothing so...erm... how about a little of both?