Premium members are the same as us?

Hi all, Just like to say, without wishing to upset the site owners, that premium members behave the same as ordinary ones. We had a reply from a premium member and after a chat on we agreed to a meeting. The following day he backed out with a lame excuse. Maybe he did not want to "upset" us with the truth that he realised we are too oldugly for his taste, which we would have accepted.
Our realisation that it is no different for anyone in the swinger world should make some of you out there feel a little more comfortable with rejection. We have had to reject hundreds over the years and it is never easy to do. Happy swinging, J&G