Whether you elect to communicate with me or not, this is just a public service announcement.
If you are a novice submissive, I highly recommend that you invest in at least one of these books. They tend to be far more accurate than any of the novels you may have read. Power exchange by its very (accurate) title will lead you to understand that "Fifty Shade's" "Christian" would be far more likely to be the sub than the DOM.
So go to a BDsm munch. (Look it up on goggle) here in Orlando they meet at The Woodshed Orlando.
And buy at least one of these books. Both of these books are available on Amazon and I highly recommend them to start. If you have a Kindle or similar device they are way less expensive.
It's always a good idea to read up on potentially dangerous hobbies. You probably wouldn't jump out of an airplane without going to ground school first.
Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism.
Screw The Roses Bring Me The Thorns: A Sex Guide For Women On Using Fantasy & Domination and Submission Sex To Create A More Erotic Life.
When ever you go to a first meet be sure someone knows where you are going, and if possible, who you are meeting.
If you have to ask one of your vanilla friends, print out your dates profile, write down what you know, seal it in an envelope with your cell number and your safe word on the outside. Paranoid much, MasterKenny1960?
When you get to your first meet you can also send a photo of your new friend to your over watch. Your cell phone is fully charged, GPS is on, and you know how to email a photo .... right?
This is one of the benifits of going to the munch. If you meet people who are openly involved in the lifestyle you can comfortably call one of your munch friends and just tell them "hay I am meeting with MasterKenny1960 from throupledates.com at the Dennys just north of the airport for a first meet. If I don't call you by midnight and say [pick a safe word like "pomegranate" different than your your play "safe word"] call me on my cell. If I don't answer or if I do but don't give the safe word then please call the cops. This is the up side of this sight ... they make you jump through hoops before they post your photo. Your date does have a real full face photo on their profile, right? If you meet them at the munch, ask them to introduce you to a couple of the others. Try to get contact info from a collared submissive or their Dom and ask if they will accept "safety calls." This way if Master Bill introduces you to Master Tom, his sub dick and their friend Master Harry. You now have three different people to call and they each have a chance of knowing Master Bill and possibly where he lives.
Welcome to the twenty first century. [Parachute school remember]
Sub does not mean stupid, or doormat.
"Lets be safe out there"
Even if you like to wear bruises, or at least want to try it out. That does not (necessarily) mean you want to be sporting a sling or a cast. Your "first meet" is the time for negotiation. No one should lay a hand on you without your permission, it's called power exchange. To exchange power, requires negotiation.
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