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Lads - If you don't know what you're doing don't pretend

12:22 am Friday, 26th February, 2021

It can be so frustrating, meeting a new sub only to realise they have had some pathetic weasel pretend to have been their dom previously. Some of the stories I've heard border line on abuse and misuse rather than a proper dom/sub relationship.


It can be such an incredible and empowering experience for both dom and sub if done right.

Advice for new doms, don't be a dick. If you want to get into being a good dom, play with someone experienced first, learn what you need to do before tainting someones view on how a good dom/sub relationship should be.



Comments
2:25 am Monday, 1st March, 2021

This is so true xx

6:46 pm Tuesday, 2nd March, 2021

Omg yes! Well spoken 

1:45 pm Friday, 5th March, 2021

Excellent advice.

1:47 pm Thursday, 11th March, 2021

Omg!!! This - just this!!!!! Can I pin this to my bio please!!!!! 

1:29 pm Tuesday, 16th March, 2021

Thank you and well said. 

3:06 am Tuesday, 30th March, 2021

Exactly this I’ve met some right jerks

10:27 am Tuesday, 27th April, 2021

This is so true, especially when ur new and suppose to put trust in ur dom to guide u and have be safe 😊

12:32 pm Wednesday, 28th April, 2021

I'd love for you to teach me

2:45 am Thursday, 29th April, 2021

Teach me daddy Dom xx 

8:03 pm Saturday, 5th June, 2021

Hello would like to chat to you I'm the hubby

11:52 pm Sunday, 4th July, 2021

Having just fell foul to this I wanna say its important to be able to recognise the false.. It comes down to respect... If a dominant is true, then they will dominate u into the best u... Make u feel good about yourself and wholly fulfilled.  a narcissist however will tell u what u want to hear... Promise u the world... Then use ur own vulnerability to tip the power balance just a little too far... Then before u know it you are lonely,  self loathing and self doubting and they can mould u however they want to.  It's ironic really cause this guy... In a bid to get me to do what he wants, has disrespected me to the point I won't. Every single couple have their own unique dynamic, and but it should always ultimately make u both feel good.. A good dominant is the sexiest thing in the world... But a bad one can be dangerous. 

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