11:24 am Monday, 4th August, 2014
It was National Orgasm Day this week in case you weren’t aware, if you were then chances are you’ve seen us nattering about it, (we just love any excuse to talk about all that is sex)! So, lets get going on ensuring that everyone is enjoying themselves to their fullest and reaching their ‘peak’.
What A Legend
There’s long been this reputation of myth and elusiveness surrounding the female orgasm but we can’t understand why. A lady’s climax simply takes a little more time and the right settings in comparison to a fella’s. So number one, time is precious and you can afford to dedicate enough of it to satisfy your girl. It’s well worth it. Here’s a few more tips for getting your girl off:
Remember, gentle..she’s not a genie’s lamp so don’t rub her like you’re trying to get your three wishes out of her. Soft touching and caressing is what will most likely turn her on. Her clitoris is super sensitive and has more nerve endings packed into it than an entire penis so going too rough is only going to hurt or irritate her.
Keep her warm, especially her feet!
Make sure that there is no distractions around you and that there’s no chance of someone strolling in on your shenanigans. A lot of an orgasm for a lady is psychological, if she can’t relax, she can’t come.
Ask her what she wants occasionally whilst pleasuring her, not all the time though as you will put her off.
If you’re doing something and she’s making all the right noises, keep going with what you’re doing! Aim to stay with it and change up whatever it is as minimally as possible be it the tempo, where you’re touching, what movement etc.
Men Also Need Some Orgasm TLC
Then there’s men, there’s a plethora of information on how to please a lady due to the whole notion that it’s difficult to do whilst blokes are a little left out when it comes to the how to’s of their orgasm as everyone just assumes it’s a no-brainer. Not necessarily. Not every man can just orgasm from a bit of attention from their hand and a dirty magazine, this may be the belief but men can also be like women and slightly more complex when it comes to orgasms. Here’s a few pointers:
Men are visual creatures, they love food for their eyes so wear something sexy and do something sexy, be that a dance on top of them, make your boobs bounce or lick your fingers in a euphemistic manner.
They also take pleasure in listening, so don’t be afraid to whisper what you’re going to do next to him in a sexy voice down his ear.
When he’s inside you, tighten your PC muscles and release. Do this repeatedly and watch him blow like a volcano that’s been dormant for thousands of years and finally just blown it’s top. Practice exercising these muscles to have greater control and strength from them, you can find an article for doing this amongst the rest of our selection of articles.
Tickle his balls before and during sex, they are so super-sensitive they can make all the difference between the big ‘O’ and just ‘oh’.
Make him feel sexy, tell him so and initiate sex so that he feels desired. Men can also have their equivalent of ‘fat days’ and it can totally alter their ability to come.
We hope these tips help you out whether you’re taking a sexy lady to the brink for the first time or getting your man’s rocks off for the thousandth!
