10:51 am Friday, 17th January, 2014
What is erotic sexual denial? Perhaps you already like the sound of it without us even having explained it or are up for absolutely anything sexual and want to try it for yourself. Either way we shall explain everything that is sexual denial to you.
Easier Said Than Done
Erotic sexual denial is defined by reaching the brink of orgasm and stopping yourself from having said orgasm by reducing the factor that got you to such a point of stimulation such as masturbation, intercourse etc. This is done for a number of reasons including being able to carry on sexual activities longer, more intense eventual orgasm or sexual humiliation. This is a technique practiced by many members of the BDSM community and is rather simple in theory, yet doing it is a whole different kettle of fish.
Someone On The Edge
There are a few things you should do before trying what is also known as ‘Edging’. Talking with your partner and outlining what you both want out of the experience is good but most importantly you need to discuss your limits and set out any boundaries prior to starting. This edging act can be frustrating and some people may react worse than others due to this physical and psychological need for release, especially when done multiple times.
Past The Point Of No Return
Sometimes when trying this, a person may find that they psychologically remove themselves from the point of orgasm to bring the intensity back down and carry on, yet they physically do still come but because their stimulant and orgasmic state of mind have been removed. Their coming will be a ‘ruined orgasm’ as they came but didn’t get that euphoric sensation that requires the full works of body and mind being focused on the orgasm. Practice makes perfect though and users will learn to control this sometimes involuntary body function with experience and time.
So, there’s another fantastic yet simple way of spicing up your sex life and another box to tick off your bedroom bucket list!
