Who is a brat?
A brat is someone who enjoys being mischievous, disobedient, and cheeky to their partner, usually lightheartedly. Laughing in your face when told what to do, not obeying rules, and being playful are all examples of brattiness.
How to connect with a brat?
● In order to connect with a bratty sub and understand them, first understand their motivation. It's a common misconception that all brats crave punishment. There can be plenty of reasons a brat 'acts out' and only one of them could be for the sake of punishment.
● To understand a brat, you need to figure out what motivates them and that should influence your reactions whether you are looking to adjust their behavior or appease them. The key is working with a Brat, not against them.
● Attention: Some brats like all eyes on them. For those, the chaos they create should be viewed as goddamn adorable. You may need to give more attention to adjust their behavior.
● Trust: Wouldn’t you want to have a blueprint for earning someone’s trust? Instead of throwing darts, understand what actions and traits this person values. Especially if trust is one of a brat’s motivators, understanding how to both gain and lose their respect is very important if you want this brat to remotely listen to you. Patience. Loyalty. Consistency. These are key to earning this brat’s trust. If you can withstand the brat’s behavior whilst demonstrating continuity with your character or attention, you just might get it.
● Punishment: Sometimes called “funishment” when the act is enjoyable, the draw to this motivator could be the punishment itself or the act of pushing someone to the point of punishment. The brat needs to agree to the punishment and method of punishment prior for this one!
Who would enjoy a brat?
Someone who gets bored easily, someone who likes to be kept on their toes, someone patient, someone who likes a challenge, or someone who likes playfulness. Brats can often be a chess match or a puzzle. Sometimes they'll give you a key or a guide and sometimes that key or guide will feel useless.
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