This is a rant.
I have travelled a lot across European and both American continents. I have had the pleasure of meeting amazing naughty people and be part of memorable kinky scenarios. One thing common in all settings outside India is no one compromises on respect and decency. The politeness is not superficial and no matter your gender, current relationship status and experience level rude behaviour, cocky attitude, disregard for safety is undesirable.
Couples do not have monopoly over singles (especially cis males) on better conduct, being respected and assurance of safety. Single have as much to lose as couples. They have the same dignity and desires as any other person.
I chat with lot of couple and female profile in and out of this platform. In India, the process of building a relationship and trust is corrupted. Singles only want quick lays and most have some kind of harmful devience, couples and females focus on making money even if they are not into anything naughty. The entire scenario is disheartening and takes the fun away. I am not against individual choices and fetishes. I am against the rude conduct of people and demeaning treatment of kink in the process.
I especially hate guys who throw around pics of their partners or wives without revealing their own faces or identity. This is exploitation and a major red flag. Another group is the people who cannot handle rejection. They act as if the world is responsible to make them feel good. No one owes you anything so just move on. Learn to handle your rejection with dignity.
Be decent when needed respectful always.
