2:15 pm Tuesday, 5th February, 2019
When it comes to solo-pleasuring, everyone has their go-to strategy to get themselves going. For some people it’s visualizing a particular fantasy, for others it might be the extra stimulation of a toy or vibrator, but for many of us watching porn is the preferred method for getting in the mood. Anyone with an Internet connection has access to a seemingly infinite array of porn choices - every fantasy you’ve ever had is available with the click of a button.
Yet, many of us want to include our partners in the fun but aren't sure how. How do you bring it up, what do you do to get the most out of it, how do you deal with the awkwardness that could come up?
That said, if you're both on board with it, watching porn can bring you closer, become a starting point to talk about how to kink up your sex life, and warm you up for sex.
So, if you're into the idea, here's how to do it.
Watching some porn to spice up your sex life could be a fun surprise, right? Not always!. "Talk about it before you turn it on," People can have big differences of opinion about porn. Some don't want to see it no matter what; some see watching porn as a form of cheating, for others, certain types of porn will be a big turn-off.
As with most relationship decisions, talking about it is pretty much always the first step. And if you’re worried that blurting out, “Hey, instead of The Office tonight, let’s watch some nude penetration?” might get things off on the wrong foot, When you start getting into foreplay, you can kick things off with a suggestive question, like, “You know what we’ve never tried before…?”. Or, if you’re a little unsure about how your partner might react to the request, try a little white lie, like, “I had this hot dream last night, we were watching porn together,” and you’ll be able to gauge their interest level based on their response before you take things further.
Are you into leather and gang bangs? That is awesome, but maybe your partner is not into that. When you're watching porn with someone else, you have to take their tastes into consideration. Instead of throwing on your favourite videos and hoping for the best, browse together. Find something new. It will show your partner that you care about what they like. Encourage your partner to choose something they think they might find hot. The exploration is part of the foreplay, and it will help get you both in the mood for the main attraction.
As you're watching, keep an open mind. It's unlikely that you know everything that turns your partner on an vice versa. Being judgmental or reactive can shut anyone down. If they say they aren't into something you express interest in, don't wallow, keep it for your solo pleasure time. After a few times watching porn together would be the best time to ease in some content that interests you, even if it's a fetish. Make sure you get a movie that has that in it and drop hints, “I'd really like to try that,” “That looks exciting,” “I think that would turn me on.” Give them the opportunity to express their kinks by allowing them to pick films that interest them.
Have you ever watched porn with a partner? Or is it something you would like to try? Let us know in the comments below.
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