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Party On: Our Top Tips For Throwing A Sexual Soiree

    Sex isn't always just for two; if you know how to have a sex party, you are guaranteed to have a titillating, sexually fulfilling, and totally unforgettable experience. No matter your sexual preferences or fantasies, an orgy can be a great way to experiment with having multiple partners, partners of varying genders, and to enjoy watching others have sex. While a sexy soiree will inevitably be an eye-opening, uninhibited affair, it is important that everyone involved is comfortable with participating and fully aware of the circumstances.

    Determine the "guest list.”

    The first step in setting up a successful, sexy party is to decide who you would like to invite. You may want to invite singles, couples, or both, but make sure that all participants know who is attending before the night begins. While you are figuring out who to invite, keep in mind whether you'd like to engage in heterosexual and/or homosexual activity. Try to choose people you find sexually attractive, who are comfortable with the same kinds of sexual behaviours you are.

    Set a date, time, and location.

    Whether it's in someone's private home, a hotel, a sex club, or somewhere else, be sure to pick a place that can properly accommodate your sex party. A setting with comfortable beds or furniture is generally preferable. If you are planning your orgy during evening hours, it is a good idea to pick a place that will allow participants to stay overnight.

    Establish an agreed upon set of guidelines.

    As we all know, things can get a little crazy in the heat of the moment. Sexual comfort levels differ from person to person, so to avoid upsetting or offending anyone, it is always a good idea to let the people in your party know beforehand if anything is off limits. For example, while there may be multiple males in the group, some may not want to engage in homosexual intercourse. This should be made clear before the soiree starts. Will video recording devices be allowed? Some women may be not want to participate in anal sex, and some people may be against bondage or S&M. Whatever the rules, it is important that everyone is in agreement to avoid bad feelings afterwards. If the soiree is a free-for-all, make sure everyone involved is aware of this as well.

    Determine whether or not alcohol will be involved.

    In reality, an orgy can be slightly intimidating, awkward, or nerve-wracking. Many people use alcohol or other substances to loosen themselves up and shake some last minute inhibitions. Make sure everyone at the party is comfortable with the substances that are being brought into the situation.

    Have fun!

    A sexy shindig is an undoubtedly liberating experience and the perfect opportunity to live out your so far unfulfilled sexual fantasies. Don't be too uptight, and remember, everyone is there to have a good time. Whether you're experiencing multiple women at once for the first time or watching your sexiest friends go at it, a sexual bash is a night you'll never forget, so make the most of it!

    Being involved in an orgy can be one of the sexiest, most memorable experiences you'll have in your lifetime. As long as you're in a comfortable environment with people who get you hot and bothered, your sex party is sure to be something that no one will forget–and if you're lucky, will want to repeat regularly!




    Comments

    easier said than done..


    From my experience parties i have been to range from a get together in a hotel or motel room advertised before hand on a site suited for your sex and those who are trannie friendly. Other parties are birthdays either at someones home or at a place of choice like a bar in town (this means going out in public which some can not do ofcourse) or a gender bar. Bdsm parties depend on if it is a open gender, some are only for straight and not multi gender.
    Lastly it is always hard for individuals closeted to get away for a get together and meet new people and indulge in your sexual desire. Finding a comfort zone or place where you can relax and have a room set aside for those who wish to play in private and does not offend anyone. OK just my opinion hope it helps. Domanica xxxx