The after-taste of the appetizer

7:07 pm Friday, 7^th April, 2017

Most people love to share their group sex experiences. I love reading those. But I was very much eager to know about how the relationship with the beloved shapes after such experience. I went through many articles but wasn't sure what actually happened. I had read that in many cases the relationship grows for the better and in many other cases it goes south. So, with lots of uncertainty I jumped into the well of exploring new dimensions of pleasure as a couple.
My boyfriend and I had been fantasizing about threesomes, group sex, gang bangs etc since a long time now. But before doing the actual deed I wanted to research about how things work, what rules are to be followed and how boundaries are set. I am grateful that my boyfriend wanted the same. He is very good at research and he helped me see things with different perspectives. He didn't force his opinions on me. He just showed me the way and asked me to lead. Only when we felt we were ready, we decided to meet people. We met a few couples and singles. As we exchanged views and ideas we got a better understanding of this wonderful lifestyle. I am not sure we understand it yet, totally. But our first time went surprisingly well. We met a couple with whom we felt really comfortable and we made plans of getting together. We had an extremely wonderful day with them. I would have to skip the details disappointing the readers for some reasons. Anyway, I was mainly trying to say about the relationship after trying this lifestyle. As my boyfriend and I were already in a very healthy relationship it affected us in a very positive way. We discussed about the whole experience very openly. I told him how much I enjoyed showing off my talents to him with another man and how I liked to make the other woman comfortable every moment (Sincerely hoped to not make her feel left out or jealous). I thanked him for being such a gentleman with her as I had heard him ask her if she was ok, quite a few times on bed. He told me how much he enjoyed seeing me enjoy another man who was quite a gentleman himself. To be frank, I was very scared that I would get possessive seeing him with another woman and completely ruin the experience. But I surprised myself that day. I didn't get jealous. I knew he wanted me to enjoy and I did. Even when he was licking her and I was being licked by someone else, every time our eyes met we felt our love was blossoming. That day I discovered a new me. I didn't know I could say or do such things which I did that day. I didn't know I could be so comfortable touching another man. I didn't know I could enjoy seeing my boyfriend with another woman. I rediscovered myself. We had a very thorough discussion about it later and our bond got stronger. What about the sex? Oh ya, it definitely got better. I had this fear that after being in a foursome we may not enjoy our twosomes. I had feared that we would get greedy and not appreciate what we had just between us. But my fears, thankfully, didn't come true. Instead we are enjoying sex more even if it’s only just us. He was always awesome in bed and he still is and additionally we have more things to talk about while fucking. Like he would describe me how I had sucked another dick or how I checked out someone's ass. I have more dirty things to say which he enjoys to listen and it badly turns him on. He has more fantasies to share and plans on experiencing those. I am more confident about him and our relationship. I am sure he feels the same. On the days we can't meet we have extremely awesome phone sex. All the moans and groans and dirty talking over the phone are getting hornier. After our first time we had plans to meet the next day and have some intimate time together. But we were so horny; the next day as soon as we woke up we had to have phone sex. We couldn't wait for even a few hours. Oh, it was so awesome!! I remember listening to his horny hot talks by massaging my pussy by being on my fours. I was in need of doggy fuck. Fortunately we got to fuck after a few hours else the house would be on fire that day. His pants were certainly on fire and me; well I was burning from head to toe.
After that we have been meeting more people and with each meeting we get to learn something new. I agree, our views do not match with every couple or person we meet. But it doesn't have to. A normal friendship can be maintained or ways can part right after a coffee meet. We don't have to sleep with everyone we meet and we don't have to hate or judge everyone we don't sleep with. Till now my understanding is, it's a very flexible lifestyle. Rules and boundaries can be set and discussed openly. We get to add our ideas and imaginations; also we get to disagree when required. I feel the most important thing in this lifestyle is to have a very good understanding of your partner, and to achieve that, good communication is important. Both the partners should respect each other's wishes and views. This lifestyle is meant to be fun and give physical pleasure and not become a baggage too heavy to carry. I would like to see more naked men and women in my lifetime; it would be infinite times better if my better half is with me enjoying the same. The mantra is "No strings attached!" 😉

Hope this helps someone!
This was just the appetizer. I am sure there are more courses to come. And I would like to taste each course slowly and enjoy to the full. I think I'll need more portions of each course. There is a long way to taste the dessert.

-She

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	8:29 am Saturday, 8^th April, 2017 Maturecpl117 Very Nice
	9:48 am Saturday, 8^th April, 2017 kiaranishesh Hey, Madam she, Good to hear abt ur views. The MAIN and most important thing is the understanding and openness among a CPL. Also, each one in Group has equal rights to Say yes or No to wht they Like or wht they want, and others shud hav the intellect to respect and ACCEPT it. Why we are here is just for personnel fun and transforming your fantasy in reality. Rightly u said there shud nit be any baggage carried, wht eve happenes should be left there itself in tht MOment. Wish u Good Luck, god Bless and Happy SWINging.
	1:24 pm Saturday, 8^th April, 2017 ZarlashtRana Pretty much sums up how things have gone between me and my hubby, and we started with FFM, then MMF before we actually got to a couple to couple foursome!
	2:06 pm Saturday, 8^th April, 2017 thamizhcouple 😍👍👍👍
	9:17 pm Saturday, 8^th April, 2017 kimnrob15 We love your blog
	7:14 am Sunday, 9^th April, 2017 Klcpl2016 Very well written....close from the heart.....Great
	8:20 am Monday, 10^th April, 2017 mastramcasanova as exact as whimsical as u dropped me 'out' one day as u wud get me 'in' someday !
	9:54 am Monday, 10^th April, 2017 rahulswapcpl really awesome and well penned good very nice article..with real normal human values of normal people sensitivity. fully agreed with you.. respect. if you guys ever planning down to our city please have a normal meet will happy to provide our hospitality
	10:59 pm Tuesday, 11^th April, 2017 adass1975 Very well said .... fully agree with every word ... warm regards
	11:13 am Thursday, 13^th April, 2017 lifetocharm Very nice and real feel garnished
	9:34 pm Saturday, 22^nd April, 2017 milanj as you both person are brod minded and with sense of humer than it ok to share everything of your with each other. but sometimes people are just open minded they swing because theirs partner want it or they want it or by any reasons in that case if partner not have good humer and a mind to think than if you tell everything about relation this can add some cillipoweder in your chocolatey life, at suddenly you see nothing but after time one small argument can turn into big fighting be carefull
	11:45 am Tuesday, 2^nd May, 2017 lefeu4u Excellent write-up, very sensibly written and describes well the essentials of what is needed to be in this lifestyle. I am sure your article will be a guide for so many couples who are hesitating to enter the lifestyle. Well done 🙂
	7:54 pm Thursday, 11^th May, 2017 MadanTamilNaduIn Wow super dear
	1:51 am Sunday, 28^th May, 2017 samratsingh329 What narration, clear and less preachy
	1:51 am Sunday, 28^th May, 2017 samratsingh329 What narration, clear and less preachy
	1:25 am Thursday, 1^st June, 2017 rbdr1 Very nicely drafted
	9:20 am Sunday, 4^th June, 2017 Fluidsilk1 Superb D.. You write so well and enact a scene perfectly..
	12:38 am Saturday, 15^th July, 2017 santsheet Nice views.... Great
	4:41 am Wednesday, 2^nd August, 2017 faeralph87 Well put. Offers some great insight into your experience.
	12:00 am Saturday, 12^th August, 2017 Oasis15 You are so amazing. Thank you for sharing
	12:27 pm Friday, 25^th August, 2017 darkhandsome26 Great to know everything abt this lifestyle n thanks
	5:08 am Saturday, 26^th August, 2017 Dare2ShashiPune Really interesting thoughts ..Not many members are able to share their own views like you did. Sex is big part of this life style bit no one talks about how this life style affects there own relationship which is the most complex . On my personal experiences , my wife accepted my likes and choices without hesitation, we have a great healthy relationship where sex is a part but not the only thing, my wife don't wanna be part of this bit and I accepted it ,she does enjoy hearing about my encounter with members. And it added great level of spice in to sex life. I hope to read more from you in future and will be waiting for your next blog eagerly.
	6:48 am Thursday, 31^st August, 2017 prithvi7572 Nice
	9:59 am Friday, 27^th October, 2017 touregv2017 Loved your post. well drafted. Life is all about exploring what lies beyond boundaries. Applies to sex too. Awesome way to keep life more lively and interesting. Keep rocking guys!! HAPPY SWINGING.
	4:20 pm Saturday, 4^th November, 2017 rakitha Great narration, Loved it ! 😇
	10:35 am Friday, 10^th November, 2017 dhakarachi i hope to experience this myself ❤
	6:19 am Monday, 27^th November, 2017 Sugarmumma Beautifully written and so so true to this life style. Keep exploring and having fun. That's what it's all about fun and communication without either you Will not survive the life style.
	12:09 pm Monday, 27^th November, 2017 rp7118 Hmm good
	6:56 am Tuesday, 19^th December, 2017 arun123guwahati Wonderful. You should publish.
	7:05 pm Monday, 25^th December, 2017 Rajan So True.. Nice One
	12:10 am Thursday, 28^th December, 2017 moniJames Lovely post. Had very similar initial fears with similar resulting experiences. Could never write about it as beautifully as you did. Sounds like you found a keeper of a boy friend! Good luck!
	4:06 am Thursday, 28^th December, 2017 Angoodboy1982 Well written piece thanks for sharing 🏆
	1:59 pm Wednesday, 3^rd January, 2018 sapphyre Thank you for sharing . I had the same fears. I am confident of trying this now.
	11:50 am Friday, 5^th January, 2018 DonBob6969 A very good fun useful post
	11:56 am Sunday, 7^th January, 2018 DecentDebauch Very well written ... I hope this can help is clearing a few cobwebs. What I personally have found is that communication is key. And sleazy stuff have sad repercussions!
	8:10 am Tuesday, 9^th January, 2018 kayzplays Lovely insight. Thanks!
	5:57 pm Friday, 2^nd February, 2018 Hiddenpleassure180 Nice
	3:59 am Sunday, 4^th February, 2018 powai very very well written..... i dream about finding myself a wife like you 🙂 all the best in your future adventures... happy orgasms!!!
	12:17 pm Wednesday, 7^th February, 2018 sanannie The only thing baffles me is whether there is any end to the search for appetizer or somewhere it stops.but well written on this complex lifestyle.
	8:37 am Sunday, 25^th February, 2018 enjoyKarnataka wonderful post
	1:42 pm Friday, 2^nd March, 2018 Vtogether Really written very good......A lot of things being which goes through lot of couples mind.....Superb....Very well descripted👌👌👌✌️
	5:33 am Sunday, 25^th March, 2018 laecouple2017 Very eloquently written I have my fears as well, my hubby and I want to try a threesome with another female we talk about it often and get worked up talking about that when we fuck we imagine there's a third person (female) with us...i secretly worry and secretly don't want us to find a willing female, because I'm worried I'll get jealous if I see him fuck her andor he enjoys fucking her too much that after that a twosome will not be so enjoyable that he'll imagine he's fucking that other woman when we're together
	12:49 am Thursday, 19^th April, 2018 Fluidsilk1 You write so well and your thought process is so clear. I have not met anyone who can express herself with such conviction and honesty. You are a Gem. Lucky to have met you.
	7:39 pm Thursday, 3^rd May, 2018 bansubi25 No words to write but appreciate your true feelinds. Great would follow your next write. 👌👌👌👌
	10:43 am Tuesday, 22^nd May, 2018 ikhthus well wrote the blog!!!
	11:28 am Sunday, 27^th May, 2018 Jasonlane7172 Keen if you are
	4:44 am Wednesday, 6^th June, 2018 uhhahh after reading your blog i got some courage and i want to enter in this arena as soon as possible. my hubby saying me since last year but i was not ready for it but now i think i hav to try thing like this. thanks
	9:28 am Sunday, 17^th June, 2018 aryanluvesu The appetizer itself is quite appetizing..nice write-up...you have penned down the entire thought process in a very immaculate and vivid way....thanks for this !!
	2:31 am Monday, 18^th June, 2018 decentcaringcpl Exciting Story
	12:21 pm Thursday, 12^th July, 2018 smartboy5 Yes it really exciting.
	12:21 pm Thursday, 12^th July, 2018 smartboy5 Yes it really exciting.
	4:07 am Wednesday, 12^th September, 2018 PiyushNewDelhi I realy true yohr word i love sex
	12:16 am Thursday, 20^th September, 2018 Nice69man Wish I could be in a relationship like you have.
	2:20 am Saturday, 22^nd September, 2018 filthyflirty69 I have no problem with FFM, as long as I know that my guy has no emotional connection or whatever with the 3rd wheel. Even if he f*cks other women if I'm not around, I'm cool with that as long as he tells me. Coz if the guy hides it adventures, I would think he's going serious or exclusive of the other person and I don't like that. If there's really nothing extra something special between them and its just sex, then there is no reason for the guy to hide it from me. No guilty feelings.
	5:30 am Sunday, 23^rd September, 2018 goneryding2 Well Said. That's exactly what we are looking for and hopefully find on going couples to enjoy. Mike N Kat
	2:00 pm Tuesday, 25^th September, 2018 Malivoquethreesome69 I love it. I will.let my husband read your blog. We are still in the process of to do or not to do. To push thru or to back out. This blog may help us decide further. Thanks
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	6:50 pm Monday, 19^th November, 2018 kish999 Absolutely well written, very true indeed, keep writing keep swinging👍👌.
	8:39 am Tuesday, 20^th November, 2018 PiyushNewDelhi Wah nice your line👍👴
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	6:40 am Monday, 26^th November, 2018 cxxxavier Loved the explanationarticle!
	11:26 am Tuesday, 11^th December, 2018 sulesuri Good to read your experience May help my wife to open up for new opportunities
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	6:04 pm Thursday, 7^th February, 2019 raaasleeelaPune thanks lovely article
	4:24 pm Friday, 22^nd February, 2019 sxybrenda6969 Hon, I really Loved your story and you were right in not adding the details of the sexual experience, that's not what this story's about. And I thank you for writing it!! My girlfriend of 21 years and I have been considering bringing another person into our bedroom. We have always been an extremely happy and horney couple but a few years back I became ill and was chemically castrated by American Medical Professionals leaving me at 58, unable to obtain an erection. I can still cum, but can't get hard enough to penetrate. After some time, I started feeling bad that I could not give my girl what she needed and wanted, a hot, throbbing coc k to fuck her. We have talked at length and decided to try and find a Transexual Gurl, one with tits and a coc k to also fulfill her bi sexual curiousity. I loved the idea as I think they are very sexy and would Love to join in and full fill my own fantasy. The problem is, my girlfriend worry she will become jealous or possessive watching me with a TS gurl or I will loose respect for her after it's over. We have always been close, trusted one another, never cheated or betrayed each other and I' m confident in my ability to handle or control my emotions. Besides, I have always fantasized about watching my GF get tucked by another man or two. Your story will really help her to overcome her fears.
	7:29 am Thursday, 28^th February, 2019 chetantare1983 nice article darling...
	4:30 am Wednesday, 20^th March, 2019 FunLuvnCoupl Where did you meet the other couple? I sooooo want to meet a great woman for my marriage.
	8:16 am Saturday, 27^th April, 2019 plumpoise Liked the blog very much. Very reassuring that the bond between the couple got better after getting into the lifestyle. That is exactly what one looks for.
	4:22 pm Tuesday, 21^st May, 2019 storm47Toronto This is ideally how it goes. The same happened for my partner and I. We became closer, and appreciated one another more than ever before. We have now embraced polyamory as well as “sport fucking” and our communication has improved as well. One thing to remember is full disclosure and total honesty with one another
	3:47 pm Saturday, 8^th June, 2019 Bballfan222Cicero Hi. Like to meet you. How about drinks and get acquainted? Pat
	1:18 am Tuesday, 18^th June, 2019 Spnkrgud I love this! My wife and I are are looking to share our first experience, and I hope We have a similar experience
	11:33 am Tuesday, 16^th July, 2019 evershine liked the way u hv described..it has walk thru like me and my wife had this experience just.. aah it is you & your partner. thanks for write-up
	4:00 pm Saturday, 27^th July, 2019 Playcouple2008NewDelhi Lovely... i think this might help us..
	2:28 pm Tuesday, 27^th August, 2019 paintsquarter1 I waiting for my wife's first sexual encounter with a bisexual bi-cutious female we are both wanting it bad she has always wanted to be with a female and I wanted to watch her , that would just arouse me and give me so much pleasure tho I will not touch the other female I will get great pleasure to see my wife with her
	8:41 pm Saturday, 26^th October, 2019 x0jjj Beautifully written
	2:31 am Thursday, 31^st October, 2019 youintrouble604 Loved your article...helped and answered questions...Thanks.
	6:09 am Saturday, 30^th November, 2019 odia69 You turned me on...
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	6:55 am Saturday, 14^th December, 2019 Straponinme That was so well written. A great read thank you so much💯👌🏼
	12:25 am Sunday, 22^nd December, 2019 petco Very good written
	8:10 am Saturday, 28^th December, 2019 ManoharK8 So nicely explained all the details and joys of the experience. I was wondering how it would be. Now I got some insights of the experience.
	11:45 am Friday, 3^rd January, 2020 nospam744 Glad you are both getting the experience. I remember the first time swinging as it was called. Not entirely sure that the female was into it. Her fella was into my first wife, we went to another room and at first talked then touched and ended up connected. seemed to take about an hour. She was happier after. Other couples were straight into the whole process. I like to study her and play. So many guys were straight into the wife within ten minutes. So, after we would talk. Was the meeting a good event, would we do it again with them. Sometimes the wife was satisfied others felt it rushed, she was intrigued that I took so long, I explained that she was nervous and that I needed to be sure she was into the whole thing. The trouble with fast meetings is it is so fast that often the girls get nothing from it. With the ads on the TV about orgasms at the moment. I think few guys know that women have different levels of orgasm and the highest is fun to see when it isn't you doing it to her.Making others aware of the highest is good as well, that way their partners can be taught what turns them on. We both took away experiences from the whole thing, tried new ideas on each other and got to feel good.If you are wondering It was a new management job that split us up. I went for more salary, that involved more time working. She was happy with some guys and couples. She found a girl for me and we had NSA sex.
	8:11 am Friday, 17^th January, 2020 tan77john55 Nice and awesome experience to share with everyone.loving the idea of it.curious but not sure if i want to do it.😂
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	4:34 pm Thursday, 30^th April, 2020 charlied952 You sound like a very content woman, and good luck to the both of you and may your relationship with your man stay strong
	12:20 pm Thursday, 21^st May, 2020 ashokkumaryen0Vishakhapat Good lesson to those who lost spice in their daily sexual programme, every couple must read it
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