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Cross Dressing Ideas and Tips: Nails, Hair, Hips, Heels!

Wanna feel your full femme fantasy? Get your look down to a ‘T’? Well, we’re here to help with our crossdressing guide!

Follow our ultimate style guide and all those sexy admirers will be drooling over you.

Let’s explore some crossdressing tips and crossdressing ideas to enhance your experience.

How to do your nails as a crossdresser

There’s something so salacious about a fiery red nail. Or how about a soft, demure pink? A flirty French tip? Whatever the color, gorgeously manicured talons make us feel HOT!

Painting your nails is fun, so put aside the time to enjoy yourself! Set the scene with some funky music, or put on your favorite TV show. Invite your girlfriends round and have a nail-painting party. Just make sure you let them dry before putting your fingers anywhere naughty… If you can help it!

Start with a base coat, then get that color on.

Place your brush in the middle of your nail, and drag it out towards the tip. Gradually move the starting point of your strokes downwards and out to the sides and repeat that upwards movement in long, flowing brushstrokes. After you’ve coated the whole nail, wrap the tip – remove the excess polish from your brush on the neck of your bottle, then paint gently around and underneath the tip of your nail. This will hold the color in and stop your nails from chipping later on!

Want a stronger color? Go for a second coat.

Then, finish your manicure with a top coat for a long-lasting manicure. C’mon, we all love a top that lasts a long time.

The key to a perfect manicure is waiting for your nails to dry! Give it at least a good half hour without touching anything to let everything set properly. This is where having the music or TV on really comes in handy.

When it comes time to take off your manicure, it’s pretty simple: soak a cotton pad with nail polish remover or acetone, and rub it over your fingernail until they’re all clear! Then, oil your nails afterwards to keep them strong. Painted nails help us feel sexy – and you can get up to all sorts of filthy things with those pretty hands!

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All about the hair: wigs for crossdressers

Your hair is your centerpiece – those fabulous tresses frame your gorgeous face!

If you’ve got a wig shop in your local area and you’re happy feeling your oats out in public, then trying wigs on in person is great for first-timers, because you can see what looks good on you.

Not comfortable with that? No worries, babes – there’s lots of places you can shop online too!

It’s best to start with something cheaper that has its styling built in. Then you can build up to more custom, expensive, realistic-looking wigs over time. Don’t worry, though – you can still get great wigs for not that much money!

Consider what you’re using your wig for… Is she just for sexy time, or do you wanna wear her out and about too? Think about what outfits you like to wear, and what colors would go well with them. Think about your skin tone and your own coloring – if you’ve your own natural hair, what do you think of that color next to your skin? Do you wanna stick with the same palette, or try something different?

Once you’ve bought your gorgeous wig, store her on a wig head if you have the space, because it helps keep the style in place. You can pick up a styrofoam head for just a few bucks online or at a beauty supply store.

And don’t be tempted to wash her too often – it’s hard to restyle a wig afterwards! Use a light brush or thick-toothed comb to tease out any tangles, and spritz with detangling spray.

The most important thing with hair is finding something that makes you feel sexy. Self-confidence is attractive, baby!

Va va VOOM!

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How to get a good silhouette as a crossdresser

Unsure how to get your body looking as HOT as you know it is? Don’t worry, girls, we’re here to help with cross dressing help and crossdressing tips!

We know you’re all different shapes and sizes, and that’s fabulous! The most important thing is loving your body and embracing your gorgeous shape as it is. However, if you wanna enhance your natural silhouette, we’ve got all the sexy tricks for you…

Corsets and waist cinchers will snatch your waist in tight. They also feminize your posture and enhance your natural shape by pulling you in at the waist and pushing your hips and tits up and out.

Looking to be smooth but don’t wanna spend hours shaving your legs? We hear you, sister! If you want the look without the faff, just slide on a pair of tights or silky stockings. Controlled pantyhose will smooth your skin and highlight muscle tone, too.

When it comes to panties, you’ll find a great variety of affordable waist control knickers or bodysuits online or in most underwear stores. They’re designed to smooth everything out, and many also offer built-in butt-lifting solutions! Opt for high-waisted options for stronger compression.

If you’ve got a bit of flesh on your chest area, try a few rounds of strong tape to push up enough tissue to emulate and hold up a sexy natural cleavage. Then, you can accentuate with a lil bit of contour! Apply that bronzer or dark blusher in any creases to create deeper shadows.

Under clothes, the easiest way to boost your bust is with a padded bra. If you’re not looking for anything too huge, this alone will still add a flirty, feminine touch to your frame.

Remember: looking sexy is all about feeling sexy. You have to wear what makes you feel hottest – strut your stuff and sway those hips, you gorgeous thing!

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Heels for crossdressers: a guide

So, you’re getting all dressed up – a lingerie set that shows off your figure, hair and nails done to the Gods. The only thing missing in your head-to-toe femme fantasy is the perfect shoe!

Did you know that wearing a pair of heels actually improves your posture? They push your chest forward and your hips back, accentuating your assets.

Keeping your balance in heels is a lot easier if you know how to carry your weight. Try walking toe first, and never lean too much on the back of your foot. When you’re doing your sexy catwalk, keep your feet in one line, and push each hip out as you step on that same leg: left foot forward and left hip out, right foot forward and right hip out. Yasss, it’s giving Naomi Campbell!

There’s soooooo many shoes out there… How do I know which ones to pick? Don’t worry, we got you with crossdressing help and cross dressing ideas.

  • Stilettos are super sexy and sleek, but you’ll need to have good balance! They’re best for us girls who have good experience.
  • Thigh highs will show off your long legs and make you feel like a horny slut.
  • Platforms will give you more stability because your foot is on less of an angle. BUT you’ll still have great height! These legs go alllll the way up, baby!
  • Kitten heels are smaller and easier to move around in. Perfect for beginners and demure girls alike.

Wear a pair of stockings underneath your heels so you can keep both on and still get to all the good stuff.

Keeping your heels on during sex means you’ll feel empowered to keep your full femme fantasy going. Besides, your feet won’t hurt when you’re lying down! Or kneeling, or on all fours, or upside-down…

Wave your legs in the air and put on a show!

Minimizing discomfort and maximizing pleasure is what sex is all about, so only ever wear what makes you feel hot. There’s no need to make yourself uncomfortable just for a pair of shoes!

Make yourself feel good with how you look. It bears repeating: if you feel hot, you look hotter. And, baby, you’re on FIRE!

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